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Slut Walk – A National Shame

Posted on: June 19, 2011



Media is projecting Slut Walk in India as an initiative by 19 year old Umang Sabarwal, a journalism student at the Kamla Nehru College in South Campus. If a girl of this age is having a discreet sexual relationship with a guy of same age and later break up for whatever reasons, she, along with her parents will file RAPE charges on the guy. Media will drum it up as “19 year old guy LURED an innocent girl for his sexual perversions”.

I’m just trying to point out the double standard that media and our legal system takes in two different scenarios. Not so long ago we saw a 12 year old girl accusing domestic violence against her father. Here also the “prudence” of this minor girl got glorified rather unmasking the nauseating attitude of her mother to misuse children to fight her divorce battle!

Apparently, I don’t understand what is this hue and cry all about? Rape in Delhi is actually decreasing. Those who know how to read numbers know that rape in Delhi is decreasing. Media is giving false alarm to get more readers. In the past decade population of Delhi has grown several folds but number of rape has not grown proportionately. Another crucial thing that people should understand is what exactly a “Rape” as per the law is. Not many people, I doubt even Umang Sabarwal, are aware that as per Indian Penal Code, “sex under false promise of marriage” is also considered to be “RAPE”. Also look at the kind of number which is in discussion right now; A total of 489 rape cases were registered last year as compared to 459 in 2009, based on reports from Delhi Police Commissioner B.K. Gupta. Last year Pune police reported that 74% of rape cases were consensual sex. Looking at the current trend of false accusations, this figure gives you the indication that 30 more guys got trapped and blackmailed in 2010!!!

Above all, how can we reach a conclusion that an offense has been committed just by looking at the number of cases registered? If that would be the case, then why would we spend a lot of money on running courts, trials and police? All we need is just jails. People can give complaints in jail and the authorities can put the accused behind bars with out any investigation or fair trial! Isn’t it? The need of the hour is not Slut Walk, but Sexual Intimidation Law. Other related demands that men put forward are mentioned in my ‘About page’.

Recently I read about a substandard article published in DNA praising “Slut Walk”. This article illustrates ideologies of Umang Sabarwal, Neha Jayshankar, 22, a sociology student in JNU, Diya Manjrekar, 35, a guest lecturer on Culture and Social Studies in Delhi University and Shilpa Phadki a writter. Their ideologies prove that these women seem to have very low level of IQ! They are against objectifying women but what they are doing is protesting for the rights to wear sexually provoking attires and thereby objectifying themselves ! How dumb? Isn’t it? The language used by the Canadian police officer was inappropriate but the message was loud and clear; “If women don’t want to be sexually assaulted, they should avoid dressing like sluts.” The message is, if women strip in public, men get the signal that “here comes a sex object”. No one is imposing burkhas for women here; all they have been asked for is to take responsibility for their own actions.

No one will accuse the pedestrian for his injuries/death who recklessly cross the highway and run over by the fast moving vehicles. Everyone knows the all the vehicles come with breaking system and expect them to stop in order to avoid a wreck but that doesn’t mean that there will never be a wreck. Its not blame-the-victim theory, it’s all about taking responsibility of one’s own actions. No wonder Barbara Kay, a famous columnist in Canada says “Feminism is dead, what you see is just whining”.

14 Responses to "Slut Walk – A National Shame"

Are you a rapist? Only a rapist or a potential rapist would say shit like this and those who agree are in the same damn category.. You all should be the ones filling the jails in this country.

Indian women gave a big blow on sluts by walking in decent clothes.

When did responsible behaviour and virtueousess amount to being a rapist? Rather, people like you need to be filling the jails because you encourage slutty behaviour and destruction of family values.

Great work dude with your blog in exposing the other side of these feminazis, Here is another news which exposes their ugly face, if a man had committed this crime he would have been lynched by the media and women rights jholawallas but since a woman has done this they all are silent.

Mom of two, ‘bride’ of 8 men
HYDERABAD, July 2, DHNS:

The story of 25-year-old Deepti Reddy alias Deepti Vallapuri, who was trapped by the police last week on the charge of gypping 31 men and marrying at least eight of them, sounds like the one straight out of a movie.

A prominent page 3 figure, Deepti Reddy, who took the high-profile society of the city by storm for years, had a posh house at Guntur and was a proud owner of the latest version of gadgets and a swanky Hyundai – i20 car.

The modus operandi was to post her photo as a ‘bride’ on websites and trap “desirable” groom-to-be. Police said Deepti has been in the con game since she was 16, and her mother Pushpalata lent her all support.

Mother of two, Deepti confessed to have cheated a dozen men and managed to “earn” a huge collection of jewellery and gifts worth over Rs 1.8 crore by way of weddings. Her calculations, however, went wrong when she befriended some Visakhapatnam-based software engineer, who chased her from place to place pestering her to return the costly gifts.

The police received complaints from five to six of her “husbands” and laid trap for her at a posh hotel at Jubilee Hills and nabbed her when she was about to tie knot with a 35-year-old Mumbai-based bank executive. The sessions court here has remanded her to judicial custody.

While some of her “husbands” were from film industry, many others were nondescript merchant bankers, pilots, navy officers, software engineers and NRIs. The list includes a visiting professor from the UK, and a Dubai-based oil executive.

Even if the charges that include immoral trafficking and cheating are proved she will get one-year sentence, but with remissions she could be out in six months. “I have not cheated anyone. I told every new ‘groom’ about my past unhappy marriages and also showed the divorce paper,” says Deepti.

Investigations revealed that she approached men through online only. Every time she got at least 10 to 15 applications of which she chose the wealthiest.

Deepti, who had worked in travel agencies in Hyderabad and Bangalore, also procured divorce papers from a family court in little known town of north Karnataka. “Most of them, who wanted my company, were married and they invited me to places like Singapore and Dubai. I lived with them as their life partner,” Deepti told the police.

She, along with her mother Pushpalata, managed the relations and never let out the truth of “multi-marriage” she was tied with. Among her “victims” is a 28-year-old software engineer and close aide of a Tollywood actor.

http://www.deccanherald.com/content/173325/mom-two-bride-8-men.html

it would be interesting event to watch………ha..ha..

its a feminist tactic to create and spread hateness for men.
Innocent Men will have to suffer if we dont warn them of these feminazi monsters.
We must find a way to share their identities and photos some way and prepare MRA’s

When Hindus and Muslims were fighting each other both think the other religion is the biggest threat to them. But they failed to think who created that hatred! Are you getting me?

its a feminist tactic to create and spread hateness for men.
Innocent Men will have to suffer if we dont warn them of these feminazi monsters.

mr prassoon……your article is a lesson to many. i am attaching your article to my facebook account for others to read.

Thank you so much for spreading the word

we need to take pictures of all these wanna be slutty whores and post their pictures all over internet along with their names and addresses.
must be posted on adult sites too !!
Sad and shameful for such a culturally rich country as India.

Lol you got these cockroaches wrong. They are not gonna come in thongs. Their reason is even with decent clothes they get molested, so they are gonna show up in decent clothes. Slight relief ain’t it? Atleast they know what is decent and what’s not lol

I have shared this article on my Facebook page. Keep doing the good work.

-Arvind K. Pandey

http://indowaves.wordpress.com/

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